A studious guy enters the classroom carrying loads of books. Suddenly, someone in the class cracks a joke on him and everyone starts laughing. There is no shortage of jokes on studious guys; you can search a lot of them on the internet. The general perception of a studious guy is that he doesn’t speak much; remains reserved; illustrates a shy personality and looks boring. Sometimes, reserved nature and shy personality would be taken as submissive guy with lower self confidence. For most of the girls this is a turn off.
Does it mean that being studious makes someone more vulnerable to be targeted for cracking jokes? Does it mean that he will always remain single and no girl will fall for his intelligence and knowledge?
Obviously not!!!
A lot of girls do appreciate the fact that a guy is concerned about his career and working hard to accomplish his career aim. It is true that girls have a natural tendency to get attracted towards outgoing and adventurous guys. Late night parties and getting drunk have become a symbol of so called “cool” attitude towards life. But, there are girls who value intelligence and knowledge. A studious student is a genuine choice of girls seeking long term serious relationships as studious guys have high chances of grabbing good career paths and hence sound financial stature. Not every girl is adequately social and she wants a likewise partner. There are girls, who appreciate studious guys for their commitment and dedication and they feel that he will prove a reliable partner in today’s time where trustworthy partners are hard to find.
Sincerity and commitment towards career minus shyness and introvert personality will blow away the ‘”boring” tag from a studious guy’s personality and boost his popularity like anything. In any relationship, a girl believes that she deserves enough attention and affection from her partner and this is an area where someone juggling in books always lags. Giving rest to books casually and roaming around with partner; sightseeing and going for a movie are examples of full proof entertaining activities to make sure love sails without any interruption.
So, there is no need to change your nature; being studious is good. But, it must not imply that you are all brains only. Take interest in girls; talk to them; spend quality time with them and give them pleasant surprises time to time.Also, don’t ignore any cheap jokes anymore. Do show some muscle to those useless craps. Make them aware of their position. Your girl would definitely like it. Show the world that studious guys are no more single and they are enjoying life like anything.
Remember, even the great scientist,Mr.Albert Einstein had more than half a dozen girl friends in spite of getting married twice. So, there is no reason a studious guy can’t manage love in his life as good as he manages books.
